Best friend keeps bringing her bf

So my bff and I both have boyfriends and obvi tht changes the friendship and we both agree we haven't been spending as much time with each other anymore. I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and she's been w/ hers for 3 months. but whenever we plan to hangout, the convo always goes to her talking abt her bf or hella low key trying to one up me in relationships. And she always brings him around and finds excuses to have her with him. yet, I know if I did tht, she'd get upset. she wants to hangout w/ me on her own terms, but I'm the only on willing to give up time w/ my bf to hangout with her and she won't do the same but expects me to do it for her... WTFFF