How do you deal with gender ‘disappointment’..

It’s really getting me down that I was told the sex of my baby at my 12 week scan, to then be shot down (told the truth) by women on here that it may not be accurate and not to get my hopes up. 😔

I am longing for my girl and my Daughter dreams of having a baby sister.

I also have a 2yo Son.

Before people start bashing that I should love my child regardless of sex, obviously I will and whatever the sex will be all I ever know.

I read online it’s almost as if you ‘grieve’ for a child you never had; being told you’re having what you’ve dreamed about for years, and have your future and plans laid out in your head.

Please tell me I’m not the only one experiencing this feeling.

I feel awful for it, but I can’t help it.

How do I deal with the news if it is indeed a boy. I don’t want to cry or anything or show anyone how I’m feeling.

Praying for my girl. 💕