My ex and I just broke up yesterday, today his brother told me he’s with another girl. I’ve talked to them both and I’m not sure who to believe. If he was talking to her while we were together it makes this much harder...

I’m relatively young and this guy is the first one I’ve had ever done anything with. While we didn’t go all the way we went further than I thought we would. The physical things we’ve done made me feel closer and more in love with him. Today, we talked things over and he said he didn’t think he really loved me, but he enjoyed my presence and role in his life.

I feel terrible. I feel used and this is the first time I’ve ever been used in a way like this. My heart is shattered. How can I make myself feel better/less like it’s my own fault?