Me and my hubby butting heads.

I need help guys. I’m so frustrated I want to scream! My husband does this thing where when we have a disagreement he shuts down and says “i have nothing to say”. And then he proceeds to close his eyes and “sleep”.

Just a little while ago I was upstairs folding laundry. I came downstairs after hurrying up because i heard the baby crying. When i came down i said oh he’s hungry.. with that my husband (with attitude) says yeah.. i know. After asking why the attitude he said bc I’m up there knowing he’s crying and he’s down here having to deal with it.

As I’m feeding the baby i tell my husband that he’s gonna have to find ways to calm down the baby in between feedings bc when i go back to work this week he will be with the baby 14 hours during the day until i get home. I told him that he can’t just be feeding him 3oz of my stored breastmilk every hour bc he’s crying.

He immediately got angry and asked why do i get to just whip my boob out whenever i want but he just has to sit at home and suffer.

1. I don’t want my liquid gold wasted.

2. I don’t want my baby overfed

3. I don’t get why he has to be so hardheaded and think that I’m just coming up with this rule out of wanting to he cruel. LIKE I WANT MY BABY CRYING!!

Please help!! Am i wrong?! Do i let him feed whenever he wants while I’m gone? Can someone help me explain this to him in words that will make him understand? HELPPPLP 😭