I finally found the courage!

So my now ex and I were together for 4 years currently 22 weeks with our 3rd , we have a 2 and 1 year old . So from the start he has always been very emotional shut off won’t speak about his feelings or ever ask how my day was , never held my hand , sex was just when he wanted it . Up to feb 22nd he had emotionally abused me , threatened to hurt me , tells my 2 year old to punch me in the face . Well February 22nd he physically punched me in the face and pushed me off our bed all while our son was watching and I was almost 20 weeks pregnant. Friday night I took the kids away for the night and stayed with my mum and step dad and while I was gone he started sending text just trying to start fighting, he hasn’t payed his share of rent since dec and was telling me he was paying the bills well I finally had enough and said you need to step up and what pay your way or you can leave . I got home Saturday night and walked into a almost empty house he took everything. He then sent me a photo of his hr lady and said he is sleeping with her . I was in so much shock I just stayed home and cried for days . Then all of a sudden I asked myself what would I do if this was happening to my daughter ? I’d bloody kill them so why should I let it happen to me in front of her with her growing up thinking that was accepted or normal. Well I got myself showered and dressed and the kids and I wet to the police just to find out my rights well 3 hours later photo evidence a intervention order was put together and was made instant , only thing he physically had to be served . Next morning just as I opened the blinds he was sitting in his work truck just watching . I called the police they said until he was served he could do what ever I was getting phone calls fro hi saying things like I’m gunna make you disappear and take the children , 3 days pass and he still needed to be served so I took matters into my own hands, I arranged for him to come see kids for a little but to let me know when he was 30 mins away so I’d make sure I was home. Well I hid my car in garage , popped kids to nap and called the police and said he will be here in 30 mins but if he sees you here he will take off . 15 mins later the police arrive there was 3 of them I said his not even here yet and as I looked up I see his work truck come around the corner. I said he won’t stop he will speed off . Well that’s exactly what he did the police ran to there car and set case . 2.5 hours later the police were back they dragged him out the back and showed me he was cuffed . We have court Monday to finalise the avo .. earlier that day I told him child support need to be started where he replied this

When this avo gets done don't ever message for money or contact me because as far as I'm concerned the kids arnt mine my name isn't on there birth certificates so good luck with child support , NOW FUCK OFF

Like really you don’t want your children if you have to help support them . Well child protection called me and said I did the right thing I am keeping the kids safe . So after 4 years of emotional abuse , threats , pushing punching me while pregnant and cheating I finally took a stand and he now cannot be within 200m from my house and is allowed no contact withy children or me . He was arrested and charged for domestic violence and now will at the most get supervised visits with the kids . Half my family have now said I’m nothing to them and that I set him up wtf how can I set him up what and fake photos and text ? So it’s just me and my babies from here on I feel sad but more sad that I let it go for so long . Better late then never , now we are safe I don’t have to allow him to control me . Ppl kept saying earlier on just leave wtf are u sticking around . Because I was scared I now know it would have only gotten worse so somehow managed to tell someone . I’m looking forward to moving forward and being happy again . These are just some of the photos used for evidence .