Does anyone else live with lazy ass men

I’m this close 👌🏾 to ripping my hair out. My brother has been living with me since he’s in a really tough spot. My SO lives with me as well. Ok so tonight I got home from work (they didn’t have work) I went into the kitchen. The trash can was full so they’d started piling all of their trash on the kitchen table. I went off. I told both of them to stop being so lazy and that if they want to continue to stay in my house they can start cleaning. It’s freaking ridiculous that you’re too lazy to replace a trash bag so you use my kitchen table as a second dumpster