PLEASE HELP ME OUT URGENT!

so I turn 17 in a couple months and my boyfriend just turned 18 last month, and his parents are into arranged marriages it’s what they’ve been doing for a while in their family.. when I met my boyfriend his parents wanted him to marry a different girl but he said no and choose me over everything, and in turn his parents disowned him for it.. recently his parents thought about their decisions and let him come back into the family and his mother said she was willing to meet me and my family. But she wants us to get married soon.... I don’t know how to handle this I now don’t want our parents to meet because my mother will not want this and I don’t even know if I want to be married at such a young age I personally think relationships should wait a while to see if the two people work out for each other instead of jumping into things.. but I’m just really scared and I don’t know what to do please help me out or give some kind of advice.