women's body hair?

i've grown out all of my body hair (over a six month period or so) twice since entering college. i love the way armpit hair looks on me, and i don't like the upkeep of shaving. i find that if you clean well, nothing smells.

i currently keep all my hair shaved because 1 my mom really hates it 2 i was single for a while and lowkey most boys are too weak to handle it

what do you all think? have you ever grown out your body hair? would you? is it an unfair double standard that women are expected to get rid of hair bc it's gross, but men aren't?