another sonogram

I went for another sonogram. I'm 28 weeks today. I had a doctor with my primary Doctor last week and she said I'm fine I'm small so I'm going to small but baby looked well and I measured on time. when I went to sonogram they say my daughter is growing but not quickly as she should be and shes small. then they asked about me getting steroid shots, I told her I'm thinking about it looking at information to see if its best for me.(my primary said I dont need it Btw) so she then says you have some options I'll admit you into hospital until your due so they can check you everyday (she did not give me options at all thats all the options she gave me) so I explained what my doctor said this lady did not care she cut me off each time and made me seem wrong about what I'm said. so I get into the car wurg my husband and he starts yelling at me saying every time we go for a sonogram its always something and it gets no better, you need to eat more and drink more water or something bad will happen to you n our daughter. you are small so you shouldn't be walking around even to see any family. (BTW my aunt & grandpa lives in the same complex so I visit her just to have time with her and we have a 8,6,1 yr old I go outside with and walk with and I have to run after them at times) you want to be in the hospital hooked up to machines were there pumping water in you. and I dont want to hear it that you are because it doesn't seem like it. and boys are different you ain the weight n lose it fast but with a girl its different no matter your size because women I know who had girls blew up. when you carry a girl you retain more water so you should be bigger. yea you gained some weight at the bottom and your breast but eat more even when you can't. you ate more with our son(bye with my 3rd boy I barely ate I threw up for 6 months they said he was small but he was born 7lb 10 oz with my daughter I eat everything). and he says why am I the only one upset and your not (more was said) he SATs he cares thats y he was yelling and I need to get over it just because I'm pregnant doesn't mean he had to take it easy with his tone.

I was quiet trying to hold in my tears of everyone coming at me, I just lost my uncle on memorial day and I'm still in pain from his death and people keep picking at me. I'm trying so hard to be strong and not breakdown but I can't anymore. I don't want to see anybody. I don't even want to be pregnant nomore I'm trying to enjoy every moment but when I'm happy I get shot down like I'm a bad person. I have gained more weight then I did pregnant with my sons,i eat drink plenty of water but its not good enough. thats y I cancelled my baby shower but family still want to give me one because its my first daughter out if 3 boys. I may not even show up its always something. I don't know what to do. all I can do is protect my children.