What should I do...😞😔

My church called me out because I had a girlfriend saying I will go to hell it made me cry because I’m super sensitive and have anxiety and depression. I didn’t want to go back after that even my step sister said that saying Jesus wouldn’t allow me to go in heaven unless I get a husband and have children but I always have tried to make myself not believe that and then because I’m pansexual everyone keeps getting me confused with bisexual especially when people at church and school telling me to choose if I want to go with boys or girls when I clearly told them the definition on being pansexual especially my mom because she thought there was only two genders

I feel so left out of my family since on 3 of us on the family are in the LGBT 🏳️‍🌈 Community I just don’t know what to do because my family is super religious and wants me to be heterosexual even though I’m not

I need some advice