Is he getting bored of me?

Hi everyone!

So me and my boyfriend have been living together now for about 3 months. And I feel like since then, the ‘honeymoon period’ has finally stopped. We argue over small things allllll the time and Iv began to feel just unappreciated and like maybe he’s bored or doesn’t feel as strongly for me anymore? Bit of background- we’d been close mates for about 4 years, I was in and out of uni so I never wanted to date despite him trying endlessly. When I finished uni i finally saw him in a different way and quickly fell in love. He already had his own house so after a year we moved into it together. We were both so excited and we’ve spent the last three months doing it up. However I do feel like I have to basically be his mother.. I do all his washing, ironing and just generally everything around the house despite working pretty much the same hours... and he never even acknowledges it. We’ve now started having sex a lot less (which is a big deal as for the first year I couldn’t get him to leave me alone!). Now it’s been over a week since we’ve even had a cuddle in bed because he’ll be in a bad mood about work and we’ll end up having a bit of a bicker and then I go to bed in a mood :/ My mum has told me I just need to tell him straight and ask him to help more.. but when I do he gets really defensive and starts raising his voice, i hate big rows, so I stop it before it’s solved. I made a dig at him today when he said he had no shirts ironed for work and I said yeah you do they’re down stairs I just havnt had chance to bring them up yet. And he was like oh they didn’t look ironed... 😠 so I said course theyre ironed, they always are. I always do everything for you, with little thanks to. And he replied with ‘haha no you don’t at all’..... so?! Is he just an Ungreatful shit, is the fun part of the relationship over or do you think I’m just moaning about nothing 😞. It’ll probably help to know that he was a HUGE mummies boy before we moved in together. Infact sometimes she still offers to come do his washing 😑😂 It May be a problem every woman has but since I’ve always been to scared to get this far with a guy since being cheated on and abused in the past.. this is the most serious and real thing I’ve had so I dunno 🤷🏻‍♀️

Thanks in advance!!