Usually very sweet, very loving rekationship. Been together since 2014, married since 2016. Has been my rock. Pregnant with his first, my second. Both been married once before. He has had a sort of distanxe freindship eith ex wife. They have each “supposedly” moved (her im not sure). He has been more of an adviser to her relationship troubles.. through the years ive asked if he wanted her directly in our lives (we all meet and get accuainted) he said no not neccesary bc he didnt want her fully there.. theyd lose touch when shes doing her thing and so on. So ive asked as a result to just squash it, dont have any connection to her, it made me a lil uneasy to have her in his life like that. She alao lives in the city, us in the burbs. Its been an ongoing concern if mine bc shes around but i have no idea when they talk unless i snoop. Last month he told me she randomly contacted him through email, showed me email and al. She said she hoped him and wife were doing well. And eanted to say hi. I had told him id like ot he didnt respond to her, days later asked if he did. He said No. I snooped yesterday and saw he did. Said we were expecting but also said she can contact hom anytime and talk about anything. And she responded with her saying she had bew number and will text him, and gave an addrss where she is now in city if he ever was in town!! He said sounds good and gabr his number to her again! Im so mad and sad!! Ibjnow its not cheating per say but its against my wisges as his wife! Im not the type to be insecure or jealous of every girl that he is friends with but cmon! I confronted him calmly and asked why he responded and whyhe lied to me. He said bc im so sensitive to her being brought up, and then was made at me for being in his business! Im like hello you “are” my business... and hes being secretive.. where we are not that type of couple(i tgought) today im a mess. We arent talking much this morning but said he loved me before leaving for work. He looks at it as hes not cheating so im over reacting... i dont feel i am.. dont know what to think...