I was holding my 5 week old baby boy feeding him a bottle when our 19 month old toddler daughter sat too far off the edge of the couch and fell.

I wasn’t fast enough to reach and get her with my hand by extending it out to try and grab her and save her from the fall. Needless to say she hit her head on our hardwood floor. (She’s okay! Thank GOD)

My husband comes out of the bathroom asks what happened and begins telling me what I could have done to prevent it from happening.

This upset me. I feel like he is blaming me even though he says he’s not because “I didn’t know” what I should have done so I’m not to blame.

But I still feel like it’s the same thing? If I’m not to blame why tell me what I should have done?

If I’m wrong in this please tell me because I don’t want to be upset over something that isn’t reasonable and I should not be mad over.

If the tables were turned, I would have asked what happened and that’s it. I just kind of assume he did what he could have and made an attempt to save her if it was preventable and so it hurts that i didn’t get that in return.

What do you think?

Thank you!