i’m so mad ! 🤬

fair warning - this may be a long post and i’m sorry for the venting but i need to let it out !

it started at the beginning of june when all the high school graduations and parties were in full swing. my brother, my cousin and 2 of my husbands cousins graduated from high school all within the same week/weekend.

on my side - my aunt (cousins mom) sent out an invite to his grad party weeks in advance and i had rsvp’d when we got the invite.

we knew his cousin was also graduating but we didn’t know any of the details (of the graduation ceremony or party)- and tbh there was no mention of a party or bbq for his cousin until 2 days before he graduated!! we got a group text saying his graduation time and they mentioned a bbq would be on sunday 6/3 - same day as my cousins party.

which was fine because the plan was to go to my cousins party first since it was farther and his cousins bbq was on the way home - so we could make it to both. this is the norm for us and i had no issue with it.

so my husbands aunt (we’ll call her Ana) calls him the day after we get the group text to ask if we are going to his cousins bbq (not even her kid, her nephew) - i had already said we couldn’t go to his ceremony but yes to the bbq. but of course everything i say doesn’t matter ! 🤷🏽‍♀️

so my husband tells Ana - “the plan is to go to this party first and then head over to see you guys but we might not stay long, i’ve been working nights so i’m tired and it’s sunday, so i wanna get home early, we all work monday”

Ana wasn’t listening and heard what she wanted to which was my husband saying “we won’t go” idk how she got that but like i said she wasn’t listening.

so she goes on to say, “you make time for the things that are important to you” “why cant she go with her family and you come over here - you know, we want to see you too, it’s not just about her and her family” THAT IS THE SHIT THAT MADE ME SO MAD.

uhhhhh

we’re married. me and him.

second of all - WE GO literally EVERYWHERE AND I MEAN EVERYWHERE for his family ! birthday parties? we’re there. baseball games? we’re there. holidays? we go to 2 sometimes 3 house for christmas and thanksgiving - WE always show up for them! and 9 times out of 10 we don’t to my family’s things or we cut that short to get to his side’s functions.

my husband kept his cool and explained we are going to my family’s first and would try to make it but she just kept on and on and then. he also said that this is our relationship and she needs to mind her own business and not dictate where we should go. and then told her as a result of their convo, we definitely weren’t going to their party anymore

i was so proud cause no stands up to her !

fast forward to today and he texts me when i’m at work “hey my tia (Ana) is coming over with my cousins to come swimming” so i said okay - i wasn’t gonna say no they can’t, im not upset with them and plus the pool is gonna be used.

she was supposed to be here at 6 and didn’t show up til 8. which is just rude in my opinion !

and then she acts all fake when she gets here - “oh it’s so good to see you” “wow you look like you’ve lost weight, you can totally tell”

**which i have, 💪🏽💪🏽 cause we are TTC and i have PCOS**

and my husband asks me what’s my deal because i was really short when she got there. i was really trying not to be but i wasn’t rude, i said hello and let them in but i didn’t go outside with them cause i know myself and when i’m in a mood - i can’t hide it. it’s aaaalll over my face.

and he’s been ignoring me - but i don’t care right now cause she pissed me off then and her being fake made me more pissed off

thanks for reading if you got this far. and if you think i am being dramatic, i agree with you no shame in my game lol