Terrible way to treat children

Who talks to a 4 and 6 year old and says “who would live in a stupid 3BR apartment anyway, it doesn’t even look good.”

My son told me he was crying and said he likes where we live and it hurt his feelings. He said he likes where we live more than where they live anyway. He also said he’s not allowed to tell her how he feels. WTF? He can say how he feels to ANYONE as long as he is respectful about it.

Stupid bi$&@ needs to shut her mouth my kids are well taken care of and have all they need and more. They even have more love here than they do there.

Sometimes people say mean things and I told my son not to let it bother him.

Oh the drama of co parenting with a psycho and his side cu*%.

- I never say poor things about them to my kids. When in reality they are a mess and need to get their sh*# together. Children aren’t an outlet for your piss poor attitude in life. Children shouldn’t hear about adult issues or salty feelings between grown ups. When will she grow up? NEVER. When will he grow up NEVER! Worst part of it all is on my way to pick my children up from their now every other weekend visit. (Halted for 4 months prior by the courts), I knew this would happen. I know that when they see them I have to fix their hurt feelings. I have to come up with the nicest way to explain to my young children that they are just fn crazy aholes and not to take their bi*#% comments to heart. Yes it pissed me off being the bigger person here all the time. But I’ll always do what’s best for my kids. That includes not talking badly about their father and cu*# gf. But you watch... One day they won’t want to see you. One day they will figure out on their own that you are bad people. One day they will, with out coaching make up their own minds if they want to stay in contact with you or not. And that’s on you guys not me.

One day my kids will be over 18 and they will ask me how I really feel. And I’ll tell them the whole truth. I’ll tell them how things went down. Why the divorce happened and the bs that was pulled all these years trying to coparent the best I can. I’ll tell them about the abuse and restraining orders. Countless court hearing and so much more. But for now I will find the sweetest and most gentle ways of explaining why they do and say the things they do to them. I will continue to tell them their dad loves them even when they express that he doesn’t. I’ll do that for them. Not him.

It’s not about him, her or myself. It’s about these children.