No one told me it would be like this

My partner and I have been trying for a year to conceive, I guess no one tells you the older you get the harder it can be. we got pregnant and miscarried in April at 11 weeks another thing no one talks about is how awful miscarriage is physically I chose to let nature take its course as I was already bleeding and physically it was horrific, so painful cramps like i have never felt before, nausea and hot flashes that lasted for weeks afterwards, no period again until 7 weeks after the miscarriage and I have had two periods since then both very painful and extreme nausea which I never had before. i found out I was pregnant 3 days before I miscarried (I still spotted around my normal period time so I just didn't click I was pregnant) no one tells you these things. I had my one and only child at 18 and am now 27 I never really thought I would have issues conceiving again, it's so hard! especially when my partners sister and sister in law are pregnant both with "surprise babys" and we are so so happy for them but we get asked when we will have a baby and none of them know we have been trying to for a year 😣 I guess I just want to share as I know the struggle as many of you do too and I hope for any one else struggling to conceive that you get your bfp soon. baby dust to all. gif because it's cute hehe