Romance

is anyone's SO just not romantic? like i know he loves me but like those sweet long kisses and nice dates. I can only think of two times he has ever been romantic to me when i was 21 he got us a hotel and put roses on the bed and on my 23rd he took me to a nice fancy upscale restaurant and made everything amazing. I mean we have been on plenty dates and etc but nothing lovey dovey. For ex, today i just wanted a nice kiss from him and he was just not interested. its not in his love language but he does she me in other ways. i just want to yell at him to cuddle me and get the fuck over it. a few min wont kill him -.- what does a girl have to do to get some damn romance -.-