DH always texts “you’re giving it up tonight” do you think it’s disrespectful or no?

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DH always texts “you’re giving it up tonight” do you think it’s disrespectful or no?" /> 
It makes me feel like I’m a whore or a prostitute of some kind. I don’t think that’s how you speak to your wife, but maybe I’m overreacting 🤷🏾‍♀️

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If I were you, I wouldn’t worry about what others think about it, I would worry about how I feel towards it. 
Clearly it bothers you, in which case, you most definitely should tell him that he should use different words.

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lol that's so hot. meh. suit yourself.

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Maybe you're just too up tight! If my Husband sends me a text like that I know he's joking or trying just to be a freak. How does that come off as disrespectful ? unless he's taking the sex and you don't want it then that's different. I guess just tell him you don't like it.

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It’s actually really fucking creepy

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Sounds like he doesn’t give a shit about whether you actually want to have sex or not.

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I don’t like when my husband is awkward about it. Like he’ll lift the band of my shorts away from my body and look down my pants and it’s just awkward to me. I’d rather him just not mention it and take me in the moment. But when he’s brought it up and i know it’s coming, it’s not as sexy to me.

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For me it wouldn’t be, just because I am a submissive and like to be told what to do. But if I all around wasn’t in the mood and I was told that, and they continued to speak to me that way after I said that I wasn’t up for it, then that is disrespectful.
In general, yes. This is disrespectful and wrong.

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I wouldn't worry bout it but what is DH?

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This is something to discuss with your husband.

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I’d personally like it, my husband is looking forward to coming home to me BUT I’m sure he cares about your feelings and he thinks he’s saying the right things to you, just tell him

DH always texts “you’re giving it up tonight” do you think it’s disrespectful or no?

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