Fiance working too hard for me and baby?
*I apologise in advance for this novel I have just written 😂*
So I'm 17 weeks pregnant with my first and my fiance has been absolutely amazing, he is so excited and happy and there are no faults in our relationship.
To give you some background about our situtation, we are both 20 and he works, I drive, we were living out of home but the landlord got kicked out of his house and took us to court to get his house back so we are at my mum's only for a month or so until we can save up for bond and 6 weeks rent in advance but where I am (Sydney australia) rental price is absurdly expensive like $350-400 per week at the cheapest for a shitty one bedroom apartment. 😥
My fiance has had a crap start to life but that never gets him down and he is always so positive and happy and wanting to make life better for himself and his little family to be.
So my problem is he works so much (for us) but it stresses him out and he comes home exhausted and stressed (which also can trigger his mental health to deteriorate a bit) and I'm not talking normal hours I'm talking working on average 6 days a week with about 6 hours sleep within shifts.
He does it all for me and our baby boy 💙 but I hate seeing him work so hard I want him to be able to have down time and spend time with me and for him to just relax.
I was working a few months that ago but started getting shit from my boss for being pregnant and left that job but tomorrow is my last day in a hospitality course and then I will have certificates to be able to go out and find a job hopefully, it's just really hard finding a job while being pregnant! 😔
But I want to work at least 3 days a week to help him to relax and stop worrying about money and what we are going to do, all though he'd rather me not work...
He has been absolutely amazing to me while I've been pregnant and I want to help him out by working as well to make things easier on him!
Do you think it would be a good idea for me to work? I should mention I have a subchorionic heamatoma and have been told if it doesn't go away soon I may have to be on bed rest...
Should he find a job he enjoys with good pay and good hours?
Should he ask for fewer hours for a while to give him a break? Does anyone elses significant other also work extremely hard for them?
I'm not even really sure what my question is I just need some opinions on the situation and input on what you may think is best.
Thank you lovelies! xx
Pic of us because I love the way he looks at me in this photo💗

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