Miscarried at 9 weeks and 4 days

I miscarried at 9 weeks and 4 days and was almost 11 weeks when we found out , I had a D&C; on Wednesday I didn’t bleed much , but I’m truly broken and shattered this is our first child we found out it was a boy , how soon after can you try again ?! Are you more likely to still be fertile after a miscarriage, and how did you guys cope . I feel like I would feel if my son was born and we lost him ... I just really wanted him so bad , I’m just ready to be a mother again ...