Does losing your Virginity hurt?

Question

My fiancé and I are waiting until marriage to have sex for the first time, and I am a still a virgin. Sometimes when we mess around and get a bit frisky, he gets an erection and he is big! Like as thick as my wrist, if not a little bigger. Looking my own anatomy, my virgin vaginal opening is literally the size of a nickel....how is that going to work??

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It’ll work when the time comes. It may be painful the first time or two it just takes practice and lube you’ll get there

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Lots of foreplay, lots of lube. Yes it hurts a little, go slow, and go at your own pace, and do what comfortable. It’s going to be sore for a few days, let yourself breathe and heal and go for it again, and every single time, it’ll hurt less and less and you’ll have more fun 😊

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The vagina stretches enough for a tiny human to come out so no matter how large a penis is, it will go in. It may hurt at first and take some work but if you're extremely lubricated and aroused it will work. Honestly if you see a gynecologist and have a pelvic exam and the speculum can easily be inserted and opened you will be fine.

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I ended up in the hospital when I lost my virginity. I was passing clots the size of softballs and wouldn’t stop bleeding. It hurt worse than child birth

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Depending on the size honestly. My first time it didn't hurt but he wasn't thick. With my husband it hurt the first like 3 times or so. He was my second btw.

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Foreplay will be your bff. If your guy is big, try some extra foreplay to get your body aroused. When you think your ready, tease yourselves just a little longer to make sure your “wet” if not, use some lubricant. The first time can be uncomfortable, but with time you’ll fine tune things together and find the pleasure 😉

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I was so worried about this too. Everyone says it’ll hurt, everyone says you’ll bleed.... not true. My boyfriend was my first (and only) and he is..above average 😘... and I didn’t hurt or bleed at all. Just take it SLOOOOOOOW and don’t skimp on the foreplay. It seems overwhelming but your body is literally made for this, you’ll be just fine ☺️

Does losing your Virginity hurt?

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