My dad got home from the hospital

So my dad had surgery awhile ago. My fiancé and I have been helping him and basically putting our life on hold. Also spent any extra money (including wedding funds.) on his bills. But now he wants us to constantly do everything for him. He now gets mad when we want to do things for ourselves, and makes some excuse to keep us around. He was cleared to go back to work. So now hopefully he can get back on track. But In the mean time I’m just trying to get our life back on track. Would I be a complete B***h if we just stopped helping.