Bf always has to be doing something

So I’m more of a reserved, wanna stay in most the time, (saves money as we’re short on it) and like just relaxing.

We have a newborn together, and I have a four year old from a previous relationship. I have my four year old on my days off which is half the month as I work 12 hour overnights.

He is always wanting to be doing something. And gets upset when he’s not. I have a son and we have a newborn to take care of. I never get sleep as he’s back to work and the baby is up all the time and I can’t just sleep when he does, it’s doesn’t work that way.

It’s starting to cause issues because I have no energy let alone a lot of extra money to go out and be doing anything. So he usually just goes down the road to the bar and drinks a few beers and watches sports. Sometimes he is gone for hours. I’ve told him this isn’t right and he says “he would watch the baby while I go out”. But really I have no energy after taking care of two kids on my own most the day, as he’s at work.

Ugh just needed to get this out there.

-he helps cook, but doesn’t help clean at all. Which is the worst and most time consuming.