Losing my mind

I am at the point where I am losing my mind. My SO is constantly telling me to get my shit together because I am dealing with post partum anxiety for six weeks now. He is doing a lot in the household (cooking, laundry, groceries) but he is also telling me horrible things like I am a princess and I don’t have a hard because I am only looking after our baby. Soon I have to start working again and then we are both working and taking care of our baby which makes it even harder. I am worried, I have anxiety attacks throughout the day and evening. I am really unsure what to do. Pls help me!