Is this harassment?

Question

My friends are saying and they’re serious that I’m harassing a guy I had known for 19 years, I lost touch with him 10 years ago..... We matched on tinder. This guy I matched with swiped right first... when I swiped it popped up ITS A MATCH!
I messaged first but my friends are not joking about me harassing him....
I’m confused is this harassment???
His reply seemed friendly MY MESSAGE EXCHANGE WITH TINDER GUY IS THE LAST PHOTO 
Tbh I didn’t recognize him at first glance I had to look at his picture for a minute or 2 before it hit me omg I know him! But There’s NO way he’d swipe right, I did swipe right to see if he did or didn’t.... when we matched I was curious why he would swipe right as he was my brothers friend for a very very very long time...they don’t see each other as often anymore....

My message to the guy on tinder

Accepted Answer

The only harrassment I see is from your friend.

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I wouldn't want to be friends with your friends. Are they always like this? Leave it as is with the tinder guy--ball's in his court now.

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You’re not harassing him, your friends are tools. But definitely stop multi messaging him without giving him a chance to respond. Also, your last message of “maybe it was an accident?” Sounds like you’re questioning him and coming off a bit insecure. I would stop talking to your friends about it, they’re actually being rude and annoying. You did nothing wrong, but now calm down with the messages.

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Your friend sounds like a major asshole! How annoying can one person be!

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It almost seems like your friend is jealous? Maybe she/he likes you? Because that’s not normal how she’s acting. I would text and say “the only one harassing anyone is you.  It’s like you are obsessed with me. Leave me alone, I’m blocking you.” 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Not at all, and unless there is more to the story, your friends are dicks.

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Lose those friends

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No, but your friends are harrassing you/being annoying assholes

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Your friends are super weird. Not sure they’re acting very friend like. You’re not harassing him at all but I would definitely wait till he texts you back before you say anything else. You might have freaked him out a bit by asking him if he knew who you were. Do they have a tinder app for friends? You could use some new ones lol.

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Why are you friends with this person? Your friend seems to be the one harassing you! From this post, I don’t see how you were harassing him?

Is this harassment?

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