Messy Man?! Is it just me?

Ladies!!! Is is just me who has to deal with a messy man? Or do y’all have this issue too? I mean i come over to my man’s place and i describe it as he can sleep in his own shit! It’s like nothing bothers him. I mean don’t get me wrong hygienically he’s clean AF! But,’when it comes to his place there is clothes everywhere worn and washed. Bottles of finished /opened beer. Mail/paper all over the place. I come over often and I beg him to clean and we always get into some type minor argument. I mean I get it he works long hours but damn we all work and are tired I’m sure! I don’t want to be his nagging momma but it’s truly a pet peeve of mine. #SORRYNOTSORRY — rant over. (Yes, I’ve helped him clean- it doesn’t remain that way).