Should I feel bad?

So my boyfriend and I have been dating for 11 years, he’s 27 and I’m 26. We had a separation last year for about 3 months and we got back together and things have been A-mazing and we are more in love than ever before. We want to get married and have kids and start our lives together. The issue is we both live at home with our parents, I have a degree and just started at a great job. He’s been struggling with his degree and he has a good job but he wants a better one, we’ve put our future in hold because of this and it’s one of the big reasons we had separated for awhile because I felt he wasn’t taking our relationship seriously and he was taking advantage of the fact that I wasn’t going anywhere and I’d be there waiting forever. Sometimes I feel bad because I feel like I’m pressuring to put a ring on my finger and I don’t want to be that girl. He’s looking for a new job and he just wants to make more money so we can move out and get married, I feel like if he does this and hates his job he will blame me and make me feel like I pushed him. I love him and I probably will wait forever for him but should I feel like I’m pushing him?