I’m so fuckn irritated 😤

So I’ve been w my man for 3 years & sexual there’s no limits on either end... but sometimes my cycle can be irregular & our sex lives kinda go to hell. Yes there’s always oral... which I don’t mind doing but I don’t receive as much as I did in the beginning. Then... there’s also sex!! I mean we live together & also have a 🚿 that WORKS.... but he doesn’t like to do that. He’d rather get oral... I’m cool w that but damn, what about my needs?!? I can’t control my damn period & I feel like if us not having sex is the issue, then what’s the ultimate problem here?!? Someone help