Relationship issues?

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So, I was kissing and i guess bothering my boyfriend while he was sleeping and he told me to stop a couple of times but I was just playing around and kept doing it and he pushed me away pretty hard that I almost fell off the bed and then he just went back to sleep. I just wanna know should I be mad or was it my fault?
Add on: I just wanted to play around with him I didn’t mean to annoy him but I don’t when he pushed me like it really hurt my feelings

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Your fault. He told you to stop.

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Why did you keep doing something that was bothering him even after he told you to stop? 
You cant purposely annoy someone and then get pissy when they have a reaction. What else we're you expecting?
Don't poke the bear

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Stop means stop and no means no. If he was just playing around with you and you asked him to stop and he didn’t you’d be pissed and shove him. It goes both ways for men and women. It hurt your feelings but he said stop so that’s it. It’s you’re fault for going when he clearly didn’t want it.

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If the roles were reversed and a man kept touching a woman while she was sleeping and she said no and to stop and kept going, that’s considered sexual assault. Dating or not, man or woman, no means no.

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You should stop when he tells you to stop. That’s not “playing around”. That’s deliberately going against what he wanted to happen with his own body. It’s not cute. Next time he tells you to stop (if there is a next time, I’d push anyone who didn’t respect me like this out of my life), stop. It’s not difficult

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No reason to be mad..... he sleeping.  He probably won’t even remember when he gets up.

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Stop fucking with peoples sleep lol

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That happened to me once with my BF but I wasn't doing it to annoy him I had to go home and I couldn't open the door. Hes a very heavy sleeper and when I thought he finally woke up he told me to leave. And so I spent 15 min trying to figure out how to open the door lol he usually lets me out and walks me to my car. The next day he texts me to tell me when I snuck out. And I told him that he had told me to leave and he started to apologize.

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My husband is too sweet if I done that to him he be wakeing up for some love Makeing 😂 or he’d roll over  and put his arm arround me and hold on to me but he would never push me away real hard like that I don’t blame u for being hurt feelings I would have too because no matter if he was asleep or tired or whatever that doesn’t give him a right to get physical and pushy or whatever .... ida been mad too if mine pushed me real hard because kissin is just being playful and affectionate there are plenty more ways to handle it if u ain’t in the mood for it then to push your girl/man in a rude or raw manner lol 🤷🏻‍♀️ that’s just my relationship my husband would feel hurt to if I done him  that way he would be straight up hurt just like I would I think u should make it clear when yuns got time that he hurt ur feelings and u was only tryna give the poor ol feller some loveee lol he should apologize for hurting your feelings tho FR

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Sometimes I get a burst of energery right before bed (not necessarily sexual) but I just wanna be intimate and play with him and have a wrestle and tickle him. Some times he will give in and play with me and other times he is just too tired and asks me to stop. Sometimes you need to just know when to play and when to snuggle. Plus if they gotta work in the morning you, and you don't then you gotta be respectful of that. Same as if you had to be up early and he wanted to mess around. 
In the morning I'd just apologize for bugging him after he told you to stop but let him know also that he did push you pretty hard. Next time you will listen to him and let him know that sometimes playing like that is important  to you.

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