He fell asleep while I had his junk in my hand.😠

So to make the story short, my husband had a long day. But as soon as we're together after his day at work he is doing everything to tell me sex is going to happen. Now yes I let him come to bed before me and fall asleep...but he woke up when I got in bed and we snuggled and kissed when I said so is sex still gonna happen? Where he made a little sound of sadness. But we kept talking and all, so I felt I'd take it into my hands literally and give him a hand job where I do all the work, for me to climb on top after getting him hard. I was shocked to feel he was somewhat hard already when I grabbed him. I said on seems you were already thinking about it too? But he said to get the job done and please you....😑I let that go, such romance right??? So I took that as a go sign he was getting hard and not saying no, so I start stroking....not even 5 strokes in

....😡 he is asleep and snoring! So I stop, he didnt wake up...start again to see if he'd wake up

...nope! So I moved from me touching him at all on the bed and rolled over to face away and he still didnt wake up. 🤬 guess it's me and a toy time or nothing tonight for me. Married life sucks sometimes.