Is he a bad dude??

Hey ladies, I have a question.

I met this guy in my math class last semester. We’re friends, and once we decided to ‘do some homework together’ which ended with some fingering and a blow job.

He was respectful about the whole thing, and even tried to make me feel better about the fact that that was my first blow job, and that I was still a virgin, really nice honestly, so I didn’t feel bad about it at all, since I’ve been looking to start exploring my sexuality.

Anyway, I wanted to keep messing around, because I wanna explore my sexuality, but I don’t really have time for an actual relationship, he ended up freaking out the next day. Apparently, he had an ex that he broke up with to come here, and he still wasn’t really over it, so we agreed to cool it off and went back to just being friends and working together in class, though it was kind of weird, but I think that’s just because he felt bad and kept apologizing for it.

So, the semester ends, we go our own ways, and I figure whatever, never gonna see him again, don’t matter. But, his hits me up as soon as break starts and we start talking as friends again.

Well, last night, he said that he was completely over his ex now, and asked if we could go back to messing around. I said yes, because the situation still didn’t feel bad to me, and I’ve been looking for someone to mess around with anyway, but then, as we started talking about last time, and like the conversation was turning me on, so it was probably doing the same thing for him, but like, he started acting really weird.

Like both of our roommates were here, but he wanted to meet up right now. I said we couldn’t because of the roommate thing, and then he started suggesting like quiet, public places, and asking for pictures, and I honestly don’t kind pictures, but like combined with the public thing, and how pushy he was getting, I just felt gross, as, and kind of like I was being used, which is not what I’m looking for. I’m looking to fuck around, but like, I’m looking to be respected like he respected me last time, you know??

Anyway, my roommate is supposed to be leaving this weekend, and before he got all weird, I suggested that he come over and we do some stuff. But, now idk, he literally went from walking me back to my dorm which is twenty minutes out of his away, after class the next day, and giving me a speech about how I shouldn’t be embarrassed for being twenty and a virgin, to like literally trying to get me to do something with him in a public bathroom at the school, but like also, I think we were both just really worked up, but like idk.

What do you think ladies. respectful or just an asshole that’s really good at keeping it hidden and is gonna make me not want to mess around with anyone again??