Hi ladies

I am so sick of hearing about “oh my baby had a routine the day we came home from the hospital” , “my baby slept through the night at 3 weeks.” Well news flash! All babies are different . My baby goes through like a 4-5 day cycle. And the last few days have been terrible. He doesn’t necessarily sleep all day. But he will NOT go to sleep until 3am... in his bouncer only. I tried for 6 HOURS the other night to get him to sleep and start a routine as he’s 6 weeks today. I put him down after his bottle at 9:30, turned the lights out, fan on, and left the room. He wasn’t having any of it. So basically, I’m looking for some mommies who have struggled with this sleep business and felt badly about not having a routine that have found success. Thanks in advance !