Anyone else’s significant other seemed scared to care for baby?

We have fought a few times bc he doesn’t know what to do or how to do it but I get annoyed bc it seems like common sense stuff.

Ex: baby is crying, DH thinks he’s hungry. He’s loses it bc I don’t jump up to make him a bottle he says he’s holding him and has no where to put him. So I say use one hand, which apparently he needs to be trained on. 🤦🏼‍♀️

He is getting better and shared that he is just not adjusting as well as he thought he would and he’s not with him as much as I am and since I can comfort him quicker, he doesn’t want to make his son wait and would rather me just do it.