Do I have a temper

Question

So my husband cleaned the shower. Yes, his wonderful and I appreciate him. But, he always puts my sponge inside my shower cap.. I told him why did he do it... but I was giving him shit. I was not mad at all more laughing like whyyyyy...lol so he said I have a bad temper but, I told him I was joking now his mad at me.

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Temper? Idk, I can't tell just from this one post. But I can see why he'd be upset. He did something good and instead of appreciating it, you just got mad because he didn't do something the way you wanted it. He's probably feeling pretty unappreciated right now

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I wouldn't call it a temper, but it was insensitive. He was probably just wanting a thank you and instead he got teased. In the future, I suggest you remove the sponge from your shower cap. At a later time remind him that you appreciate his cleaning the bathroom. Then you can ask him to place the sponge in a different position and explain the reason why. It separates the two events in a way that should not make him defensive. 
As a woman married for 18 years, I've learned that often my husband's feelings are just as sensitive as my own and I should care for them as much as I want him to care about mine.

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Definitely hard to tell since we aren’t hearing both sides. Sometimes people don’t know how they come off and sometimes people are overly sensitive.

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I’d be irritated if he put a dirty sponge in my shower cap too lol I don’t think you have a temper, but as pp said, it’s hard to tell from 1 incident

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He seems kind of sensitive. Maybe his feelings are hurt because it sounded like you were complaining while he was trying to do something good and helpful. Apologize and hug him and kiss him on the neck. Maybe give him a BJ and he’ll feel better.

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Non doesn’t sound like it . It sounds like he took it the wrong way . I would’ve just laugh because every time I speak what’s on my mind my fiancé he calls me a bitch I know he is joking because I laugh and call him an ass but it’s how we play around . I wouldn’t take it to heart . It sounds like he didn’t know you were joking either or is not use to it.

Do I have a temper

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