Story Time

When I was 14 I knew I was BI not long after turning 15 I started a relationship with a guy which lasted 6 years. Not to long ago he and I started fighting alot then usual and no once in these 6 years did my sexuality come up or did I think it needed to so he never found out that I was attracted to both genders. Roughly about two months ago he found out during a fight because he made the comment to me "oh what youre gay" and hes slightly homophobic. He has never been an affectionate person yet everytime he felt he was loosing me he had all the love in the world for me. Well about 3 weeks ago I ended thing over the phone because hes military and deployed. I couldnt keep dragging things on and making him believe I was happy. Am I in the wrong iv had adults tell me they are proud of me for doing something some adults cant even do and not just sticking around to make the other person happy but I still feel like a dick.