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My phone broke and I ask my fiance if I could use his while he went to work because I have two little ones at home he looked at me as though I was crazy and said  definitely not... is this the red flag?

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It would be a red flag for me, especially if you have no access to another phone and you’ve got to look after two kids. If he does not need his phone for work then I don’t see why he shouldn’t let you borrow it for the day.

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I think so. I’d be concerned 🤷🏼‍♀️

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Some of you ladies might come at me like I’m crazy but I’m just going to state my opinion as all of you did as well . Your phone broke, you’re just gonna have to put up with it until you get a new one. Asking for someone to give you their phone just because they’re your partner and getting mad or having suspicions when they don’t is not okay. I will gladly let my boyfriend use my phone anytime of day as would he ,if one of ours was broken, but can he keep my phone all day while I’m at work?? Absolutely not and I have nothing at all to hide. What are you going to do with his phone logged into all of his accounts , that has absolutely none of your info , contacts , etc ? Doesn’t make sense . Phones are so personal ! I keep everything from my daily agendas , monthly planners , passwords , pictures , Meal preps , inside jokes , down to my freaking social security so if someone asked for my phone for a whole day . I’d laugh too .

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If he doesn’t need it for his job, literally isn’t allowed to take it in, and you may need it for an emergency for HIS children and he still isn’t letting you use it....? Yeah I’d say that’s a clear red flag....

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Depends on a lot of things but I don’t think my husband would want me at home with 2 children and no access to a phone

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I need my phone for work so I wouldn’t leave mine with my SO if he asked. I guess it depends on your specific situation.

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It wouldn’t be to me ... he has to drive, & be out in public where people may not lend him a phone if something happens. Also if there’s an emergency how would you reach him if you have his phone? While on the other hand you can go to a neighbor & use their phone.

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For me it would be 🤷🏻‍♀️ my husband has to have his phone while on the job but if I needed his he would call get orders from his boss an let them know the situation and leave it. But I also wouldn’t ask him to leave his phone because I know he needs it so I would just got get s new one or switch my service to a old phone we had laying around

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I would have just asked why and then said ok well i need some money to go get a new one. Please Nd thank you.

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It wouldnt be a red flag for me even with my husband having 2 phones. I recently broke my phone and lived without one for a day or two. Guess it depends on your relationship

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