I want adventures together

To start off, I am a very outgoing person. My Hubby is not. - I accept him as a person tho, I got love for him. We also have a 9 year age gap between us, I’m in my 20s he working into his 30s.

We work a lot. And lately I’ve been torn if I want to be out like in the clubs/ bars or if I’m fine with my own company. I know I would love to occasionally do stuff or go out of course. But I am to the point where I’d love for my man to come with me when I go.

So I asked him about what we could do this following weekend, something we could do together. His remarks is always gearing us towards going to eat. Which that gesture for him is pretty big cuz he doesn’t go out to eat with everyone but it’s like no I want us to go out or have more activities for ourselves. And it doesn’t help we come from an area everyone knows everyone. It’s small.

Any suggestions? Or is this just the phase of life lol.