Too Apologetic?

Unfortunately, I'm a very pessimistic person and I keep looking at the negatives, even in my relationship.

A few nights ago, I complained under my breath about how "fun" my morning was gonna be because my guy didn't do all the dishes like he said he would and was leaving in a few minutes.

He instantly looked at me, asked me what he did wrong so he could fix it. Honestly, that pissed me off more. Almost every time, without fail, if I say something (regardless of whether or not it has to do with him) he apologizes and asks how he can fix it.

If something is up with him, I let him know, but he needs to stop assuming that he's problem and I need to stop complaining much. I understand that it's largely my issue and I'm working on it. But please stop assuming that it's always something you did and that you need to fix everything.