Should I tell him?

I have had 2 miscarriages, and also an ectopic pregnancy. Each one taking a piece of me that I can't repair... My husband also takes it hard. He's strong for me, but I see the pain in his eyes, and he cries with me sometimes.

We've been TTC for 3 years now.

If I wear to get pregnant again, I've been thinking about waiting until the first ultrasound before telling him, because if we were to lose another one, it'd crush him. But at the same time, I also want to share that joyous moment with him. What are your thoughts??