The bad part of showing early

So after 4 losses I was over joyed to get this pudge early but now 😒 not so much lol because everywhere I go “omg what is it a boy or a girl” and I have to tell them I don’t know I’m only 9 weeks lol then they give me one of those looks like damn and they tell me I’m gonna look like a whale at the end I haven’t taken 9 weeks yet even though I feel it’s gone down some so maybe this was just bloat but Idk I’ll put one of now in the comments in a minute but here’s from 5-8 weeks