ADHD kids

any other moms here have a special one with ADHD and he also has behavioral problems and he can stay still for like 5 minutes or so my son has it i wanna hear how ur kids act if theres any medication that actually helps he’s really active he fights everyday at school he talks back he tells his teachers bad words he spits fights alott with students at home he fights alott with his sisters smaller than him he’s 8 hes been on different medications for the past year none really help !? i wanna see if theres moms that have a son like this or how do they act plz i need help ???