I hate the feeling of my nipples being touched

I know, I know. But I need to know though if I’m the only person with this situation. I think it started after I had my first born my nipples became very tender and uncomfortable to the touch. I had 3 lactation specialist see me and my son didn’t latch once. I’m ashamed to admit it but I was relieved. My husband knows not to touch me there because it can actually make me turn violent. I can’t describe the feeling but it makes me want to scream and not of pleasure. It so bad that if I’m bra less and something accidentally rubs me it also gets to me. I don’t know what’s wrong with me. I’m pregnant with #2 and I’m already panicking about the idea of trying to breastfeed again. Of course I’m going to try but am I the only one with this problem?