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Question

So my husband works as a supervisor for an asbestos company ... they get jobs out of town all the time . He works in town only maybe 10% of the time & I hate it ! I feel alone while he’s gone , we have no kids just a fur baby but I just don’t like being home by myself . I do work but I am sometimes off 1 day during the week & that whole day sucks because I know he won’t come home at night . He usually leaves Monday morning & comes back Friday evening .. which means I only have 2.5 days to spend with him before he heads out of town again . Does anybody have advice on how I can deal with this alone feeling ?? Please ... any advice at all will help

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i know the feeling my husband is OT Monday morning to Friday evening 90% of the time, however im a SAHM w/ 3 kids ages 4,3, & 2 mo. until my maternity leave is over. other than parenting though i spend my day doing whatever i want, catch up on my tv shows, go outside (if possible, i live in FL), go visit my mom and hang out with her, clean my house, nap, rent a movie, go shopping. if you have a girlfriend that has time to hang out invite her over and have yall a girls night. i get lonely having no adult contact and sleeping alone sucks (kind of, lol i always have a kid in my bed) but i try to entertain myself

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How long have you been married? 
Just thinking since you don't have kids yet it might be better to take this time to consider whether this is the type of marriage you want, if you can get used to it. If you decide to have babies, any existing problems will be more pronounced, so now is a good time to decide if this is something you can overcome or not.
Is he able (and willing) to switch jobs? Or maybe you could move closer to where most of the jobs are so he can come home more often.
My husband works 65+ hours a week. I'm a loner so it works for me, I enjoy my alone time. But many other women in similar situations try to rely on their girlfriends and family for companionship and sort of have their own lives. 
Some people can get used to that life and some can't, you need to figure out what you want and how much you can take.

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