How much do your little ones eat

Specifically if your child is around 1 year old. My daughter is 10 months and she eats 3 times a day (food) plus breast milk/formula in between every few hours. An example of a day of food for her is: for breakfast she’ll have a mini pancake and some banana or berries. For lunch she’ll have some broccoli bites, cheese, a little bit of a pouch. And for dinner usually she finishes what she didn’t from lunch or eats a little bit of what we have, for instance tonight she had some little pieces of salmon with peas and carrots. Anyway, I thought this was normal. My SIL is always making comments how I “love to feed” my daughter and I’m “always feeding her”. Her daughter will be 1 next week so they’re pretty much the same age. She’s so worried about her daughter being fat, I know that she purposely doesn’t feed her enough. Maybe once a day. I just want to hear from other moms and see if maybe I am feeding her too much or if it’s normal. I never force it, when she’s done she’s done. But she loves food and I make sure it’s healthy stuff. I’m a FTM so maybe I have it all wrong but I’d love to hear what your little ones eat around this age! :)