Little pregnancy/emotional rant

I guess it’s jealously, idk, but i feel so upset when i see so many people having such amazing baby showers. Even my best friend and i are pregnant at the same time and she’s had three baby showers thrown for her and said how they haven’t had to buy a single thing...and here i am, on baby #2 with zero baby showers. Even with my first born, not a single family member bothered to buy from my registry or anything. And now we have baby #2, different gender, so i still need some things. My husband is military and it just feels like everyone forgets about us because we don’t live near by. And anyone who knows military pay knows we don’t have tons of money. It just sucks with nobody even just wanting to help with little things..and no i don’t expect stuff, especially because we always end up saving up and getting everything we need. It’d just be nice to not have to worry about having to get things in time. I have 46 days now until baby boy is here and yeah I’ll make sure we have everything, but i just wanna relax like other mommas and have family and friends who show they care..no need to tell me to not expect things from people or that it’s my responsibility or anything. I’m just venting is all...