Finding my Self worth

Lately I’ve been having a hard time feeling proud of myself. It took some major changes in my life to see just how much I depend on the approval of others to find my value.

I guess my question is, how do I stop seeing my worth in what others view me as. It’s like I need to be praised in order to believe I’m good at something instead of trusting myself and knowing regardless of what they say I know my truth.

I know that by me seeking validation from others gives others power over me. The power to lift me up or break me. I want to know how to take that power back, and be free. I want to know how not to need others validation to feel good about what I’m doing.

Anyone else struggle with this? Anyone overcame this? Tips for self empowerment? I just want to develop a boss ass bitch mentality and take my power back.