Anyone else in this situation ? 😭😪

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So me & my fiancé have had a few ups & downs here lately , he’s an addict & he sometimes has slip ups & uses .. he tells me every time that he’s sorry & it won’t happen again but it does .. he says he loves me & wants to marry me & this & that ... but im kinda tired of dealing with this situation . I LOVE HIM TO DEATH , don’t get me wrong . What should I do ?! 😪😭

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Getting him into therapy is your best bet. He obviously can't do it by himself and needs additional help.

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Can't relate from personal experience, but my father in law was an alcoholic, did drugs, everything way back in the day. He and my MIL were engaged, had sent out invites, it was less than two months to the wedding, when she realized he was never gonna change at this rate. They called off the wedding, actually went on their honeymoon together, lol, and then she dumped him and told him to get his act together. 
He decided he couldn't live without her, got sober, and they were married two years later. He's been sober ever since -- 29 years -- and he's one of the best men I've ever met. 
Maybe you need to give your guy an ultimatum and see who comes out on top, you or substance abuse 🤷‍♀️

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Hes not ready to change. He may actually love you. But he needs to love his self more in order to wanna give up what ever hes addicted to. You can still be there for him and support him without being with him if he really wants to change.

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Tell him if he wants you to stay hes going to get help. My husband was an addict also I caught him couple times when he would relapse till this last time I told him if he wanted me to stay he would get treatment. Hes currently in treatment and counceling it isn't easy but if he loves you he will change

Anyone else in this situation ? 😭😪

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