Do you tell your SO if other guys message you?
My SO and I have been together about 3 months, after being together for about a month last year, which I ruined then because I just wasn’t ready to be serious. Anyways!
We are SO GREAT now, and I’m the happiest I’ve ever been. We’re very private on social media, so we don’t have any public photos together or blast each other everywhere, which I’m fine with. However, I have a few guys that message me on Facebook. Just “hey, how are you? Hey wyd? The occasional phone number, asking to hang out, Etc. And it’s guys who have messaged me before, always like my stuff etc. Assuming they don’t know I’m taken. whatever.
It doesn’t bother me, and I don’t ever reply to them. But... should I tell my boyfriend that it happens? I don’t think he’d be mad because he trusts me, and I’m definitely not doing anything wrong or talking to them. I just don’t want to make him THINK something is up or that I’m trying to make him jealous, when I’m really just questioning if I’m being dishonest with him or not! Guess i could always just ask him how he feels??? I guess I just don’t see added value in telling him, but I can definitely see both sides. What do y’all think?
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