Alone with boyfriends parents and they don’t talk to me
So my boyfriend and I are long distance. He usually visits me since he has a more flexible school schedule but I just went up to visit him and his family. I hadn’t seen his family in over a year so was excited and knew it meant a lot to him that I was there. Well his parents are nice and polite but have never really cared about getting to know me. I was hoping now that it’s been a year there would be a lot to talk about and all. Well we were having dinner my boyfriends brother needed something for a project and they realized the store closed early. It was 20 minutes there and back and I knew my bf was hesitant to take his brother since I was there but I said go since he needs your help. So they run out and I am there with his parents at the dinner table. We just started eating so I was stuck. I thought hmm maybe this will help me get closer to them since I have only talked to them with my bf there. Well no they did not talk to me or include me in their conversations about their businesses and expenses well I just listened. His parents constantly talk about their business so it’s not like they needed to discuss stuff at that moment. I tried to make my way into convo but just listened mainly. I just find it very rude of them to be like that to me.
I legit felt like I was in middle school and trying to fit in with the popular kids. I told my boyfriend after how great it was I got to talk to his parents for almost an hour and how they asked how my school and how my family is and he goes that’s great and then I said nicely actually they just talked about their business and his face dropped since he always tells me he knows how hard I try to be friendly with them. I totally 100% know I don’t fit in with them and it’s so hard since I know they don’t want me with their son. And honestly I love him so much and know his family means a lot to him that I want them all to be happy. Can anyone relate?
Let’s Glow
Glow is here for you on your path to pregnancy
Glow helps you navigate your fertility journey with smart tools, personalized insights, and guidance from medical experts who understand what matters most.
25+ million
Users
4.8 stars
200k+ app ratings
20+
Medical advisors