RELATIONSHIP ADVISE PLEASE🙄

Right so... I’ve been with my boyfriend a year now and don’t get me wrong I love him to bits... first of all we live together and have done for a long time, I couldn’t live with my parents so here I am and I think the fact we are together all of the time doesn’t help me in the slightest...

I’m 17, he is 18 and his ‘friend’ is 38...

She is a family friend of his and when he was going through a hard time she was there for him, they have been friends for 3 years and nothing has ever happened between them

It was our anniversary on Friday, I got the day off work as I wanted to do something special, we (mainly me) planed to go cinema and out for something to eat and to go shopping

We go to the shops near where we live and surprise surprise we’re not there long before his friend calls, they are on the phone for 5 minutes and as he ends the call he tells her to call him later (I know it’s stupid but I’m a bit pissed off because today is meant to be our day and me and her don’t get along, he knows this) I explain to him I just want a day where he’s all about me? Is this too much to ask?

Anyway, we spend the first 2 hours of our day shopping for her birthday, he’s stressing out about it and after 2 hours I say I don’t care what he gets her, I honestly couldn’t care less, I know it’s selfish but it was meant to be about me and him, anyway after that he says if I carry on the attitude he would do the same all day and he wouldn’t take me out, I’m quiet the rest of the morning, we shop for her and go home (I’m not materialistic or anything but I didn’t even get a card on my birthday so I don’t know why he’s stressing so much)

We end up going home and arguing and end up not doing anything... at all... his best friend also comes over, and he spends half an hour downstairs talking to her (she won’t come upstairs evacuee she dontlike me)

Anyway, Saturday we are in a good place in the morning, I go off to work (he’s asleep) and when he wakes up he texts me saying he’s sorry I was asleep and that all he wanted to do was spend time with me and only me... 5 minutes after that text he lets me know his mates coming over, I usually call him on my breaks but he didn’t answer, I finish at 10 at night so he usually meets me from work but he texts me at 9:45 saying his mates still over and she’s not leaving until 10:10 so he can’t meet me... Im mad but I don’t cause a problem (she’s all we ever argue about) I get home and we have 2 hours till we go sleep because we get up early every morning so I just want to watch some tv and chill... is that too much to ask for? But no he sits on Facebook... every time I ask him if he wants to watch something he says hold on or wait, I finally just put something on and he dosnt watch it he’s glued to his phone, I turn the tv off and say hes had all day to do that but he’s spent time with Paula, why can’t he just give me some of his time... his response ‘I’m always with you, all the time, we share a bed isn’t that enough’ I try and explain that I just want him to want to spend time with me, not just being in the same room, actually doing things, long story short I go to bed mad... am I just being too much?

ANYWAY(sorry for the long story) yesterday we go to the gym in the morning as always, as we are walking back It’s my day off so I ask if he wants to do something like go to the cinema... he straight up says ‘really? No’ silence the rest of the walk home... AS SOON AS WE GET IN his mate texts him, he arranges to go over there, and boom he’s gone, that’s it, he knows I have no friends or family so he leaves at 12 and I’m sat in by myself in a house full of his family until 8... (we also have now ya to text each other as we have no credit and she dosnt have WiFi at her house) when he finally gets back HE BOUGHT HER WITH HIM, he comes upstairs, asks me to roll him a fag and takes the dogs out for a walk JUST THEM TWO... no hi or anything... when he comes back I calmly tell him that all i wanted was to spend my day off with him... he tells me I need to stop moaning all the time??

Now don’t get me wrong I do moan a lot... but it’s because it didn’t get through to him... she is 38, he’s taking her out on her birthday for a meal then they are going to a club? It’s weird! She dosnt like me and constantly talks bad about me to him, he comes back and tells me but why dosnt he just stop her? And he tells me weird things she says as well, like the other day they were having a petty argument outside and a man walking past says ‘just listen to your girlfriend it will save you a lot of problems’ joking around and she turns to him and says ‘I kinda like that’ then laughs it off after... she’s also slept with someone his age AND had problems with so many people in my area because she sleeps with EVERYONES HUSBANDS!he can’t see how she brings the worst out in him and I don’t know how to express how it’s making me feel because everytimeI do he turns it round on me, calling me childish saying I need to stop being so negative... she is his only friend and they have been friends a long time, I also have a bad past with relationships and mental health which doesn’t help so I need to know if I’m being too much, what am I doing wrong? I want him to worship the ground I walk on... I’ve got this idea in my head of the perfect relationship and iknow life isn’t like the movies but let’s be real who didn’t want to be thought about all the time 😂

Sorry I know it’s long but just a bit of advise would be great, I’m really lost on how to make him realise how I feel and make him want to spend more time with me